Stop Being So Busy!
I have been feeling grateful this week for warmer temperatures and a little sunshine. It helps to ground my mind and body.
I have also settled into having more “on my plate” than usual. I started the new Yoga Teacher Training recently, I am wrapping up a six month Sangha group, and I am preparing for upcoming workshops and exhibitions. There has been a lot of behind the scenes work with my website, scheduling, and of course all that fun tax-season stuff.
Additionally, my daughter Ellessia turns nineteen next weekend and she wants to come home for a full weekend of celebration. So that means about 8 hours in the car and some cupcake baking somewhere in there. My baby is almost a full grown adult…🥲
That is a lot of planning, prepping, and implementing, and very little free time on the weekends. Usually my first reaction is to feel stressed and upset “poor me, I am sooooo busy!”
I have learned that not over-thinking about all that needs to be done is the way to feel more at ease at any moment. I really am not any busier than usual, so I have to stop feeling and thinking about being so busy. It's the thinking about it that is the source of the stress.
Once I settled into the idea that tax season isn't going away, that I love teaching yoga and training new teachers, and that there will always be “the next thing,” I was able to slow down my mind and enjoy this seasonal transition in its full splendor. The sun stays in the sky a little longer each day and spring keeps getting closer. I can't wait for my daughter to come home again, even just for a few days, and I actually love baking birthday cupcakes.
This is the big secret: once you come into a place of acceptance towards what is happening, and you stop trying to control, fight, or impose your beliefs on something, there is a beautiful grace that follows.
Remember what I always say in yoga class: this is a practice not a perfect. When I notice myself stressing over being busy, I need to step back and remember what I learn in my yoga practice.
I enjoy those light-filled moments when they do arise and I know it is my daily yoga, meditation, and pranayama practice that makes them more accessible.
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Below are links for you to enjoy. May they offer inspiration for your day and fuel further creative exploration.
Links
43 Air Fryer Recipes to Wow your Friends! –Yes, I just got an Air Fryer
Offline is the New Luxury –Video (online via YouTube, oh the irony...)
Thoughts on Simplicity By Courtney Carver
Free Guided Meditation –By me
Joshua Hall –Josh's Website
"Half an hour's meditation each day is essential, except when you are busy. Then a full hour is needed." - Saint Francis de Sales